My mum has recently divorced my dad about a year ago. She got a new partner pretty quickly and he’s now moved in. She’s planning on going back to her home country soon to visit my grandparents since they’re getting fairly old now and she told us today that she’s bringing her boyfriend. She got mad at me when I got upset that I wasn’t going considering I haven’t seen my grandparents in a while and would like to see them. I get that paying for me and my two siblings would be a lot more money and if you have a serious partner it’s good they meet the family but why should he get to see them before i do?