So I (19F) went to stay over at my boyfriend’s (22M) place this weekend, just for a chill movie night and dinner with his family. we’ve been together for a bit now and I’ve met his parents before, they’re super sweet.

I wore this basic fitted tank top and sweatpants - nothing revealing, I swear. it’s literally just what I wear around the house, and I felt comfortable in it. but when I walked into the kitchen to help set the table, his younger brother (18M) kind of awkwardly looked away and later my boyfriend pulled me aside and said maybe I should put on a hoodie or something cause it was “distracting.” (he even asked me if i'm being thirsty for his brother attention which grossed me out so fkn much)

I was like... what?? I didn’t even think it was that serious. his mom was in the same room and didn’t say anything. I told him I felt fine and wasn’t changing just because his brother can’t handle a tank top.

He got a little annoyed and said I was being inconsiderate and making it weird. I ended up staying in the outfit but now he’s distant and says I embarrassed him.

I honestly don’t think I was being inappropriate at all. it’s not like I was trying to get attention or anything, and I don’t think I look that distracting, also..

AITAH for refusing to change???