My SO is not working right now and we had an argument because I feel like he is doing the bare minimum when it comes to chores. I think since I am working full-time and he is not, he should be doing majority of the cleaning.

He said he is not a mind reader and that I should make a list. I told him that would make me resent him more because I am not his mother and I shouldn't have to make a list. He has eyes and can see what is dirty.

AITAH for not wanting to make a list? If I'm NTA, how can I explain this to him nicely?