I've been in a relationship for a while, and honestly... I feel like I give a lot, but it never goes the other way. It’s me who reassures, who listens, who adapts. We can say reciprocity to God, I think. And when it’s me who’s bad? Radio silence. Or worse, responses like “you’re exaggerating”, “don’t be dramatic”.

So, lately, I stopped making an effort. Fewer messages, less tenderness, less of everything. And now I come across as a distant, cold, uninvested person. I'm at fault??