A little backstory when me and my fiancé got together, he moved into my place and his daughter and her son stayed living in his house. She has a very good job makes very good money, probably more than he does, but he continues to pay for all of the utilities, everything and she pays nothing no rent or anything. She is 30 some years old. he pays nothing at my house and I don't feel that we should get married until he can either tell her that she needs to move out on her own so he can either sell his house or rent it out to make income or he tells her that she needs to take over all of the utilities, not necessarily make her pay rent, but make her pay the utilities herself. I don't feel he or we should be paying for her cost of living. I also have adult children who are out on their own so I know what it's like. I do not financially take care of any of my children. They have to figure it out for themselves . Am I the AHole?