For context my gf is 19 I’m 18 been dating for a year and some months. We started talking abt our futures since the beginning and they have always been completely opposite( where we wanna live how we wanna live etc) we never took it to serious cause we said with time we’d see. Well fast forward to now and we have that convo again. We can’t seem to agree on what we want. She’s a city girl modern girl, I’m more western and wanna live out in the country. We can’t seem to come up with an agreement and I worry that in the future we won’t be able to fix it and end up getting divorced or her having an affair (if we get married) I’m one of those that belive dating time is to talk abt this and fix things or end things before getting married but apparently I’m in the wrong I need more opinions cause idk anymore. I think it’s better to end things early than waiting till we married and end things worse down the line.