Throwaway since she knows my Reddit. I’ve (24M) been seeing this girl let’s call her S (23F). Met off the apps which typically are a mess was originally hesitant to even go out but I did. We totally hit it off got kicked out of the restaurant and went to a bar after. Planned on like an hour and ended up being like 5-2am. We’ve gone out about once or twice a week the last two-ish months and it’s been great. Both S and I aren’t on our phones a lot and texting is pretty much just figuring out when we are seeing each other next. She brings up meeting parents and what we both want in a future. But the last couple of weeks she’s just totally blown off our plans, with usually not a text/call till a few days after. If I just put in no effort to making plans or to talk to her until she does AITAH?

TLDR: been blown off for a few weeks by girl I’d been seeing am I wrong for effectively ghosting her?