đź“ť I (16F) think my boyfriend (16M) might be cheating on me but I might be paranoid after my ex cheated on me 6 times. What do I do?

By hahahimsofunny • Score: 0 • April 20, 2025 4:17 AM


Im worried that my boyfriend might be cheating on me but I can’t tell if my suspicions are valid or if Im just paranoid because of my last relationship, which was terrible and I got cheated on a lot over the course of two years. (Let me know if you want to hear that story). Also what happened was really small and I don’t know how to deal with it. So, when I was on his phone yesterday (with permission) and on his Snapchat he had this girl he had never mentioned before when talking about his friends that are girls. I saw that he has a lot of snaps saved in chat with her and she’s second on his best friends list which means they talk A LOT. So how do I address this with him? He doesn’t know I saw her on his phone so how can I ask him about her without him knowing I was snooping and so that he won’t lie? I looked her up when I got home and he doesn’t follow her on anything else, is that more or less suspicious?

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