it was my grandma’s 90th birthday party tonight. this woman has been smoking weed for decades. like i learned about weed from my grandmother. even at 90, she still smokes a joint every day. grandma is lit.

so for her party i decided to order a bunch of pre-rolls with her face on them for me, my brother, my two cousins, my aunt, and my mom. i waited until everyone, including my sister and her two kids, left and it was just the 6 of us + grandma. i pulled out the joints and grandma SCREAMED laughing. it was truly the cutest thing i’ve ever seen. everyone took their joints home and grandma and i split one of the them while i helped her finish tidying up, and went back to my sister’s house, where i’m staying until i go back home monday.

i walk in the door and my sister starts SCREAMING at me, saying that i “shouldn’t be encouraging grandma’s drug use” and “shouldn’t be influencing Cousin1 and Cousin2 to take up drugs”. apparently the picture my cousin shared in the group chat of us + grandma holding up our pre-rolls really pissed her off and she had already been on the phone with my mom and brother, chastising them for “encouraging my bad behavior.” she kept going on and on until one of her kids came downstairs asking why the tv (aka her yelling) was so loud.

(for context: i’m 28, brother is 31, Cousin1 and Cousin2 are both in their mid 20’s (and daily weed smokers); my sister is 34, and uh… how do i put this nicely… recently Found God again after going through a pretty shitty divorce)

personally, i don’t think i’m the AH for giving my grandma weed with her face on it for her 90th birthday. it brought her joy and my family shared a special moment with her. that’s all i care about. my sister just texted me suggested i stay at my mom’s or brother’s tomorrow night, which honestly, fine by me.

so anyways reddit… AITAH for giving my grandma weed with her face on it for her 90th birthday?