AITA I (21 F) my roommate tried to set me up with a friend (her bf’s twin brother, 22 M, let’s call him Ian). We all went out together for the twins birthdays, and he got hammered. Night went on, I ended up having a good conversation with one of their friends (21, M, Grayson) and we exchanged snaps.

I talked to Grayson for two weeks. We hung out twice and he took me on a skiing date. He was the worst kisser (literally licked my face) so I got the ick fast. I went skiing with him to be nice since he asked me in advance. For the skiing date, he blew me off and slept through his alarms. I still went with him the next day since I felt bad. After that, we snap chatted a little bit (once a day) until I thought he got the hint that I wasn’t into it.

A couple weeks later, I have an event coming up with my roommate and we both need dates. I offer to take her bf’s twin again (the one I was supposed to be matched up with in the first place, Ian) so that we could all hang out and have a great time. I hang out with Ian previous to the event, we click, we hook up, he comes to the event and we have an awesome time at the event.

Flash forward, I start seeing Ian frequently. And Grayson that I previously talked to is best friends with him. After we hook up, Ian tries to tell Grayson about us. Grayson flips out giving Ian an ultimatum between me or his friendship. He blocks Ian on everything, says he can’t be friends with a guy who hooks up with the girl Grayson liked.

There was no overlap between each guy. They were both about a month apart and hadn’t talked to Grayson for a month when I hooked up with Ian. Grayson told Ian that he isn’t going to be friends with him and they haven’t talked since I started hooking up with him. Now my roommates say I broke up a friendship and I should stop talking Ian. Me and Ian don’t wanna stop talking to each other. But Grayson has started to seem jealous that Ian started talking to the girl that he fumbled and has told him that he betrayed his trust and can’t ever look at his face again.

I think that Grayson is being very dramatic since we only “talked” for two weeks. I think he liked the idea of me and was upset when I moved on with Ian. Ian is hotter, we clicked better, and I think everyone is overreacting. So AITAH???