📝 AITAH for pushing my friend and telling her to stop ?

By Weekly_Canary4710 • Score: 0 • April 14, 2025 1:10 AM


My friend Hania 12 years old and me 13 years old are in the same highschool, we became friends since we are in the same group in art class.She's my friend of course ,has an amazing talent of art and is social and nice to everybody.The issue is I don't know how I feel about her.She like weirdly attached to me ,obsessed to be friend.She's bit controlling sometimes and gets annoyed when I talk or mention other friends, which I avoid doing.She's wants to know everything and sometimes touches, hits or kick's me.I tell her most of the time to stop and she listens.But today morning was worse....

First period I had art ,which im happy about ,I love arts!Hania was excited to see me ,I waved at her and took my seat.We started working on this super cool project, when we work on anything im very concentrated.Hania wanted to show me something but I told her "sure, wait 2 seconds for me to add my final touch on my drawing".She took my arm in a half second, tapping on it ,saying "Come on only for one second it won't hurt!!".I told her to stop touching me cause its making me feel uncomfortable and I see it in a second.I was about to finish my drawing but she grabbed hardly my arm that it made me ruin my drawing.She brushed it out saying it was nothings was bit angry I spent a long time on it.She continued hitting ,touching and kicking me.I asked her nicely to stop but she didn't listen.So I pushed her gently and yelled at her to stop.Everyone was staring at us and Hania became silent still death staring me.

She told Keira (my other friend in art class, she is very nice)about it but Keira simply said "You kind of deserved Hania".When the bell ringed she went to me and cursed at me in French (were in a French highschool ,I live in canada) and when I was about to leave she grabbed my arm tightly ,not letting me go.I pushed her and she fell ,she wasn't hurt but angry.I quickly left but I heard her call me an asshole.I think I was clear and that my boundaries need to be respected but also maybe I should've not pushed her and maybe call a teacher instead?Did I do the right thing?AITAH?

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