I was sexting other women on a website that I seen in my Spam folder. And my wife seen it and this is not the first time that I have done dumb stuff in our marriage. I cheated on her after about 2 1/2 years of marriage, and then when I was deployed overseas I had sex with a prostitute, only one time. I got upset when she went through my phone and seen where I had been sexting those other women. I would never have done anything with those women. I love my wife with all my heart. Some time's I don't know to tell her what's on my mind. And how I feel. She says I broke us and I have to find a way to fix us. But I don't know how. I told her that all I can do is try to regain her trust, I will try my best to do that everyday. Because she is the best thing that happened to me in my life. When we talk about this My heart drops to my feet, because I hurt her so bad. I need some advice on how to make it better, and to make our marriage better. I'm not a bad person I just don't think thing's out, I just do and have to face the consequences later. Not all the things I do are stupid. We have been married for 28 years this July and I don't want to lose her, over the dumb stuff that I have done. Please help me.