For some context, I met this girl on an online video game, I know one of the worst ways to meet people but I have social anxiety and it is the only way I meet people.

Our conversation started when, I was trying to be supportive of her and what she wanted to do. She got mad though cause I decided to take one day of being away from the internet. She was mad because I wasn’t online and she got given information that would change her life.

She told me that I was causing her pain, and that our relationship was causing her pain. I told her to end our relationship. I told her that love shouldn’t hurt, but she kept trying to take everything back.

She told me explicitly “But don't let us continue if you're fine with hurting me” So, I ended the relationship cause she shouldn’t have to hurt. I took a few hour break from everything, just so I could rack my brain around everything that she said. My friend distracted me with anime, which helped my anxiety a bit.

If that was the end, I wouldn’t be posting this. An hour later, she started messaging again because our friends found out about everything from what she made her status. Some of them put two and two together to figure out what happened. She started cursing at me, asking why I told people what had happened, I told no one what happened between us, but she pinned it on me.

Few hours later after that, she tried guilt tripping me into coming back by saying that it was hurting her not being together. I put my phone down for a while and decide not get off for a bit. All things happened she got mad, she cursed at me “F you’s” and all that.

Now where I might be the ah is that I don’t want to talk to her anymore. I have a hard time when it comes to people yelling at me and now anytime I look at her messages asking if we can talk, I have mini panic attacks.

She recently found me in a game we both play, she tried to get me to talk to her but I couldn’t, my anxiety of it all was starting to build up and I couldn’t breathe, so I left the game. She then asked one of my friends to ask me “What happened between us” This got me angry, I told the friend the bare minimum and they told her the that I didn’t want to think about it anymore.

I feel I might be the ah because I never replied to anything she said after and she is going through a lot and that I am continuing to ignore her.

After everything that happened, AITAH for not wanting to talk to her?

TLDR: I broke up with my gf, she blew up, now she wants to know what happened between us but I don’t want to talk to her