I (21F) have had a close male best friend (20M) for the past 10 years. He’s definitely been my longest and most loyal friend throughout the years, but he makes my boyfriend (23M) extremely uncomfortable and says he doesn’t want the two of us hanging out one on one.

Ironically, my best friend is dating another guy (26M) who is also uncomfortable with our friendship. We barely see each other any more because of this. But my boyfriend has stated on multiple occasions that he hates my friend’s guts even though he hardly knows him (says he doesn’t want to either) and that he wishes I would just stop being friends with him. But throwing away a 10 year long friendship is way easier said than done, so I’ve refused so far.

AITH?