UPDATE:

Thx for all the love and support shown by u redditors on my post. You did more than my family ever did.

Ok so I read all ur comments or mostly tried to. Positive and negative both.

I wanted to post this as a reply to all comments and queries.

Ok firstly what level if entitlement my brother and SIL as and how did They achieve it?

In my post I had mentioned in the end I had added how I was glad my mother was on my side and that truly matters. I never mentioned my father not bcuz he was absent but he was pretty much alive. After I was born my mother slipped in postpartum depression which few mothers face and after that their marriage was never the same cuz my mom stopped being that cheerful woman and due to her intrusive thought and seeking therapy she was damaged. This is the reason their marriage ended.

This reason is not true during her low my dad decided to cheat on my mom that is y their marriage ended. My mum has told this to both families multiple times but u cant see anything if u refuse to. So growing up both families showered him with love and me with hatred. This has brought that entitlement (connect the dots pls)

In case of SIL she is an alone child ( all alone children r nit entitled I have friends who r single children and still very respectful) she was the results of multiple IVF attempts.... Her parents had her at age 40 near menopause so ofc she is given wht she wants. This is the reason of her entitlement.

Next is some questions abt that slap and assault and prison

Ok I m not from the US.. and my contry's judiciary system is fvcked up like completelyyyyyyy

The laws r neither favourable for men neither for women. Here they first take u to jail. They put u behind the bar directly no proof required just one report and the other person has to sit in that cell for the night.... Next day u get served in the court. Here rapist can serve up to 6 months and then r released so ya....... This system is rlly messed up.

Lastly I did wht everyone wanted me to do installed cctv cameras and I have ordered that collar which has gos attached to it. If y'all know shibas r escape artist. So ya I will keep him on leash all the time