So i (26f) got engaged last year and we immediately booked this really beautiful outdoor vineyard venue for fall 2025 it’s super dreamy and popular and we had to book it like a year and a half in advance because it gets snatched fast

well 2 weeks ago my younger sister (24f) tells the family she’s pregnant and surprise surprise she’s getting married to her boyfriend (they’ve been together for 6 months)

The thing is she also wants to get married this fall and apparently every venue she wants is fully booked and now she’s begging me to give her mine

At first i thought she was joking like girl no you don’t just take someone else’s wedding venue that they planned and paid for but then the whole family started pressuring me saying she needs it more than i do because she’ll be heavily pregnant soon and wants to be married before the baby arrives and she doesn’t have the energy to plan a big wedding

but here’s the thing i’ve been planning this wedding since we got engaged my fiancé’s family is flying in from europe everything from the dress to the flowers to the photographer is locked in and canceling now would screw over not just me but a ton of peopleand yes i feel bad that her situation is chaotic but she literally made her choices and now expects me to rearrange my entire wedding just because she’s in a rush

now my parents are calling me selfish and saying i’m punishing her for getting pregnant and that she might have a miscarriage if she gets too stressed (???)

my fiancé is pissed he says we’re not moving the date and honestly he’s right but i still feel like the villain because now my sister won’t talk to me and my mom told me she’s been crying for days

AITAH for not giving up my venue or is everyone just losing their minds