AITAH - me (21 F) and my friend (23 F) got into a fight over our friendship. After months of her not inviting me out or asking if I wanna hang out I gave back the same energy and stopped responding to her texts until she sent me “so do you have some sort of issue with me like did i do something to you? because its goin around and id rather address directly, because if i did something i am unaware” keep in mind I have only talked to my bf about the issue as im not a confrontational person and I’d rather quiet ghost someone and see if their behavior changes so idk what she means by “going around” so I responded “I mean like I just don’t feel like we r friends anymore ion have an issue and I haven’t been talking to anyone so ion know how it would be “going around” like if u just feel that way say that. Like u haven’t been talking to me and u only reach out when u want me to do something for u or when u want an answer for class or need a ride to class like this is the first time u have invited me out to hang out or do anything in a month like ion have an issue but I also just don’t feel like this is a friendship yk what I mean like I feel like im giving u my end of the friendship n im not getting anything back n im not talkin money or anything im talking support like when is the last time u haven’t tried to start a conversation with me or even hang out w me. Last couple times u texted me before today was to bring u an energy drink to class to give u a ride to class to send u the QR code for class or to give u an extra credit answer for class and then u like left me on read or delivered so like im just returning the energy like im not finna put energy into something where im not getting energy back so again ion have a problem im just letting it ride bc im not the typa person who is gonna say shit unless it’s brought up” I tried to be as nice as possible while still getting my point across and I was pretty mad that she came at me like I had been talking about her so she responded “I understand where youre coming from I apologize for making you feel that way. But to be fair 99% of the times i would ask to to go out or do something you would say no so i stopped asking because i know youre busy and dont like going out week days or whatever and thats just typically what i have been doing. The energy drink shit and qr code shit is honestly stupid, if you asked me any of that shit id do it because its not that deep to me personally. if you felt like that you could have said something a long time ago because how am i supposed to know you feel that way? by you ignoring me in public and on snap and giving me short rude responses? i cant read your mind and me making you feel that way wasnt intentional.” I feel as though that’s not an apology as she is just making it out that I’m the bad guy I also work most of the time while being a full time student but I also like to go out during the week which I have been the last couple weeks with other friends. Now AITAH for just responding with “ok”? My bf thinks it was pry the most mature thing I could do as anything I would have said would have been very unkind. There was more conversation after that but I thought I keep the post shortish lmk if ITAH!