📝 AITAH for saying I don't get freaky on the first date.

By CardiologistIll2833 • Score: 30 • April 25, 2025 1:23 PM


So I(M) have been talking to this woman and its been going amazing. She's hilarious,cool and gorgeous. Well she started coming on super strong and freaky. And we definitely vibe. But I may have been an idiot by mentioning I dont get freaky on first dates after a really bad situation I went through rejecting a blowjob before. Anyway her vibe texting changed so I mentioned did I offend her by saying this. I was only saying it and not expecting her to be putting out. I've said it to other women before and never had an issue. She said it was bold of me to assume she was gonna fuck me straight away. AITAH????

Edit because im an idiot.The text I sent was actually this 'And not that I'm assuming in case it offends you. First meets are good to not get toooo dirty lol'

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