📝 Aitah for saying that my ex's gf will not be allowed near our child?

By throw-ME-away2021 • Score: 9 • April 7, 2025 12:22 AM


So to start off before I came out of the closet, I was with a guy and we have a baby boy together. My ex left me for this girl he's with now before he went to jail last Halloween. He recently got out in March.

Anyways, while my ex was incarcerated, his gf would make me feel like crap by saying I was a bad mom bc I was a single mom and had developed PPD. My son was born by emergency c section and everything went off the rails and I was trying to cope, didn't help that my ex left me to deal with PPD and a newborn by myself.

Anyways she would also threaten my son because he isn't her child with my ex as well as say that she hoped he would die because she wasn't his mom.

Due to these circumstances, I do not want this woman around my son at all. I told my ex this (currently he is living with me because he has no where else to stay) and he got mad at me for it.

He tried to say that by not letting him have our child around this woman I would be restricting his time with our child. I told him that he needed to make a tough decision between his gf or his child and he has since shut himself in his room and hasn't talked to me since.

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