I 26F am married to my man 32M. I know he's very handsome so I don't mind if other girls look at him in a flirty way, but I draw the line if a girl tries to touch him. Anyway yesterday (on Friday) my friends and I, as well as my husband and their boyfriends decided to all hang out at a bar. We were having a good time until my now former friend kept complimenting my man. At first I didn't care but then she started touching his hair saying how nice it is. I slapped her hand away and told her not to touch my husband. She started screaming and I kept repeating myself don't touch him next time. Everything became awkward when she stormed off and the outing was pretty much ruined.

When my husband and I got home we got in an argument. He started telling me that I was being insecure and that I was "doing too much" I told him maybe I should let other guys touch me infront of you and at the end he slept on the couch.

Saturday morning I still didn't talk to him, he kept trying to apologize and I told him that the fact that you were siding with her makes me think you want to sleep with her, maybe I should start wearing short shorts and let guys touch me?

We kept having a back and fourth and he kept saying what am I supposed to do to prove that I don't want to sleep with her. I jokingly told him to go shave your head of you don't care about her since she's obviously thinks your hair looks nice.

And my husband finally left me alone. Later that evening he actually came home with a shaved head and I feel so bad now 😭