My (19M) bf (19M) have been dating for around a month. He’s a kind and nice guy and we’re childhood friends.

On Tuesday I asked him what he wanted for easter gift, and he said “sex”. I laughed it off, thinking he was joking. That same day, in the nighttime, I nuzzled into his neck and kissed his cheek. He caressed my thighs and asked what was up to me. I asked him once again, what would he want for easter. He again said sex. I rolled my eyes and told him to tell me what he actually wanted. He looked me dead serious in the eyes and said “sex”. I looked at him surprised, and asked “are you being serious?”, and he just looked at me as if I was the one being weird. He said “can’t I want to fuck my boyfriend anymore?” At this point I didn’t know anymore. So I said “you can, but I’m asking you an actual gift… like a chocolate, or something.” He got mad, squeezed my waist harshly and then pulled on my hair. I told him to stop and he just walked away.

On Wednesday, the next day, he apologized for being aggressive and took me to have lunch with him. I went and we had fun. As we passed, we saw some cool and yummy easter eggs. I pointed at some and said “I’d love to have those.” He just chuckled and said that if I ate too much chocolate I’d lose my thin waist (my waist is around 20 inches). Kinda stung but I shrugged it off. Every time we’d pass by chocolate stores, or I pointed out the ones I thought he’d like, he always managed to change the subject to sex. I was getting kinda tired. I looked at him in the eye and said, in a very stern tone: “don’t you love me?”. He got confused and looked at me, then spoke. “Of course I love you.” I was getting sadder, but still trying to be discreet. We were in public after all and I didn’t really want people to know we were dating, considering Japan doesn’t really enjoy seeing two men in a relationship. “Then why do you only talk about fucking me?” I said. He suddenly got very angry and grabbed my arm, taking me to his car and starting to drive. I was crying already.

When we got home, he started to yell at me that I was an ungrateful little bitch who only cared about his money (when I’m way richer than him lol) and also called me a prude. I went to sleep with a slap mark on my arm, crying.

The next day he woke me up with kisses and apologized. He even brought my pup. I end up forgiving him because I really love him. I’ve always loved him more than anything. He made me breakfast and spend the day with me. He did the same for the next two days.

When it turned midnight of the Easter day, we hugged and told each other happy easter. I brought him my gift first. It was all his favorite chocolate and some very expensive ones too. He got happy and kissed my cheek. He got mischievous and told me I’d love my gift, winking. I chuckled and waited, thinking that maybe he bought me the chocolate I told him multiple times that I wanted. When he came back, the gift was box shaped. It confused me a bit but I thought that maybe he wanted to keep the surprise. When I open it, my smile dropped immediately. It was an anal plug and a card written “for my cumslut”. I couldn’t believe my eyes. Tears started to fill my eyes as I stared at him. I look at him and asked “is this how you see me?”. He got defensive and started to yell that I couldn’t take a joke, that I was ungrateful and that I didn’t deserve a “good dick”.

I got up and took his gifts, saying that he didn’t deserve everything I did for him. He slapped me in the face and yelled that I couldn’t take a joke and went on (again) that I was ungrateful. He burst out furious and went to his buddy’s house.

Now it’s four in the morning and I can’t sleep. It hurts so much, knowing that the person I love the most only thinks about sex. Now his buddy and him are blowing my phone, calling me all kind of names and insults I have never even heard.

I may have gone too far, but I don’t think I was wrong with my point. AITAH?