We were calm, we talked a little about everything, a game of “would you prefer”. And then he asks me: “Who do you think is the most handsome in my family, honestly?”

I hesitated, and said: “Well… your brother is objectively hotter, but you have more charm.” I was honest. I didn't want to lie. But he reacted badly. He told me that it was inappropriate, that he was never going to look at me like that again, etc.

I didn't think it was THAT serious, it was a question, I just answered. But now it's super tense between us.