I (now 18f) was in a relationship with an at the time 20 y/o male, while only being 15 at that point.

I will admit, I did originally lie about my age and said I was 17, but even then he would've been a p*do.. about two months into said relationship I admitted I was only 15, to which he didn't care and remained with me.

He was mentally abusive, manipulative, a drunk and a disgusting person. Hardly cleaning up after himself, bottles upon bottles scattered around his bedroom. He flew to meet me just before my 16th birthday, and we ended up doing things i shouldn't of been doing with an adult.. IYKYK. He would also constantly buy me alcohol, marijuana, etc, and then control how much I could have, and consume most of it to himself, especially when I was trying to quit smoking weed.

He told me, despite me never really being to fond of the idea, that I HAD to have at least one child. I never realised the abuse until my dad pointed things out and it took me a while to leave him, and a couple years later I sat on a call with him, calling him out for everything he had done. I admitted I was in the wrong for initiating things knowing I was a minor at the time, but also stated upon finding out I was a minor he should've ended things there and then which makes him no less of a p*dophile. I told him I hated him, and wanted nothing to do with him as he had tried reaching out to my 15 YEAR OLD COUSIN to get in contact with me, which weirded her out.

I can't believe I put myself into that position, and I'm proud of myself for escaping that. I've been in a very healthy relationship since that unfortunately ended a little while ago now, and I'm moving on with my life.