Hey guys so I am going to point out before I start this story yes I am a teenager, and yes I know I’m a bit young to be in a serious relationship but I would appreciate if you would still respect the fact that this situation hurt me. Anyways so about a year ago I (at the time 15f) met my ex (at the time 16 f). She added me on Snapchat because she heard from someone that I had been kicked out and she wanted to see if I was okay. I added her back after a few days because I noticed that I knew her already, I had met her in school years ago at lunch and we were like best friends for a whole year. But then I moved schools and never saw her again. But anyway we started texting more and we became close friends then she told me she liked me. This was a surprise for me because I hadn’t even thought she really liked me as a friend but I kinda liked her too so I told her that. We started talking for awhile and it seemed like she was the perfect person, she always said kind things she hugged me and she even kissed my forehead a few times so i thought after a few weeks that it was the perfect time to ask her to be my girlfriend. So I texted her on snap (obviously because I hadn’t even thought no idea how else to do it) and she said yes. We hung out more and moved way faster than we should have. But after a few months it just started to get bad. About 5 months in she wanted to break up with me because she did something that she wouldn’t tell me at the time. Later I found out it was because she had cheated on me and didn’t want to deal with the fact that she did. But after awhile she texted me and sweet talked me back into the relationship. But it just got worse from there, she kept love bombing me and then hating me and it was extremely confusing. I didn’t know what to do or say I was constantly getting yelled at, and blamed for things. But like 2 months later she broke up with me again. At that point I was too exhausted to fight back so I just let it happen. I was not about to try to get someone back who did not want me. So I let her go, and recently since then I’ve been doing better! I’m definitely not ready for a new relationship but I’ve kissed a few girls if you know what I’m saying lmao. But a few days ago my ex called me out of the blue and asked me when I wanted to come over again. I was silent for a few moments absolutely dumbfounded looking down at the girl laying on me and I just said “what?” And she was like “well I want to get back into the relationship now, I’m done with our break.” The girl I was with looked up at me and we both just started laughing like enthusiastically laughing, and I told her “I would never date you again are you crazy?” Before hanging up and blocking her number. AITAH tho because some of my friends are saying that was too harsh while others completely agree with what I said. But I don’t know I’m kinda torn between the two. But I don’t feel bad at all. After everything she put me through (most of which I did not put on here) has made me feel like I’m going insane. I’ve been having more episodes, my eating disorder is worse and i literally cannot stay awake. My heart still hurts from her and I still can’t trust anyone. Tell me what you guys think tho and if you want more of what she did lmk.