📝 AITAH for telling my ex's brother about everything he's done?

By Mellzo5 • Score: 14 • April 21, 2025 5:16 AM


I dated this guy when I was 17 and he was 19 (woah we're BOTH dudes!!) We've known eachother since we were kids (6 and 8) and our siblings know eachother. Anyways, when we met that halfway point in our relationship, I started to realize little things he did. He would track my phone 24/7, slap me whenever I were to mention ANYONE breaking up or stuff like that, etc. The only reason we broke up is because he tried to stab me (but that's a story for another time!)

Let's jump to a week ago where I met his brother at my local Walmart since we live in a smaller neighbourhood. We go through the greetings and blah blah blah, but then he asks me how me and my ex were doing. I guess this guy forgot to tell his older brother about the fiasco that happened. I end up giving him my number and telling him it'd be better if I were to call him instead of talking in a Walmart while I looked like shit in my snoopy t-shirt.

We end up talking about it and the MULTIPLE times my ex has tried to harm me (physically or mentally) and we agree to keep this between us. What I didn't know is that this guy ended up calling out his brother and now my ex is spamming my phone telling me I'm a peice of shit and now his parents know! Lovely!!

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