📝 AITAH for telling my family I don’t want to be around them bc of who they voted for & won’t introduce them to the black man I’m marrying?

By Then-Contribution-49 • Score: 4 • April 6, 2025 10:51 AM


I am a biracial woman & I have been harboring a lot of resentment, disappointment & embarrassment toward the white side of my family. I told them it was difficult to be around them. I didn’t feel like this could be a “we agree to disagree” and a “don’t bring politics into family discussions” type situation anymore. They voted a vile, evil man into office and it’s killing me seeing innocent people suffer at the hands of this man. It’s something new everyday that triggers me. I told them I wld feel embarrassed and apprehensive to introduce them to the black man I plan to marry bc we no longer clearly have the same values and beliefs. AITAH for having these feelings and removing myself from family functions. I have always been respectful to my grandmother but it kills me that I just can’t look at her the same anymore. My aunts voted for trump & My mother admitted to me she doesn’t pay attention to politics and never watches the news but still voted. I don’t have the courage and don’t think it’s fair to ask who she voted for. She is the only one in the family who hasn’t talked abt who she voted for.

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