Context: Me (34F) Fiancé (38M) we will call Myles and his best friend (40M) Hugh. Myles and I have been together 13yrs. 3 kids.

Hugh can be a lovely guy but he is very touchy/huggy and can be rude by asking you a question but then completely ignores your answer and changes the subject. Then will ask me the same question again. He also refers to me a "sweetheart" or "lovely" whilst rubbing my arm. I'm not a touchy/huggy person and hate repeating myself or wasting my breath when someone clearly isn't listening/interested.

Anyway, Myles noticed that I seem detached and avoid Hugh at any given chance. He asked why so I explained everything to him. Now Myles feels awkward inviting Hugh round or us going out all together. I never said he couldn't come round or that we couldn't go out with him . Just said I'm not a fan. I will do my best and be friendly to him but I never want to be left alone for a long period of time with Hugh as he gives me sexual predator vibes.

AITAH for telling Myles how I feel? I didn't do it to stop them being friends or to hang out. Just wanted to be open and honest with Myles.