📝 AITAH for telling my friend/ex she should not be a life coach because she doesn't have her own life together?

By itcouldbeyoubut • Score: 0 • April 4, 2025 12:22 PM


ex girlfriend who is also my next door neighbor that I occasionally fool around with is a middle school counselor. She counsels some of the trouble students regularly at the school. She is in her mid 40s, twice divorced and is a single mother. She only makes like $50k a year and struggles financially. She has an autistic son at home with severe behavior problems who was suspended 7 times before completing the 1st grade so she took him out of school to be homeschooled but now he goes to a school for autistic kids who are better equipped to handle him.

This woman is extremely neurotic and is on the spectrum her self she believes. She has a bunch of sexual hangups and other issues which will pretty much prevent her from ever being in a long relationship with any type of man she is going to want to be with as most men just won't want to deal with her.

She is very classy and beautiful and if you didn't know her personally you would have no idea what her actual personal life was like. By far she is the most beautiful woman I have ever been with.

She just got her license which enables her to be a life coach so she was looking for clients. I have always been honest and blunt with her and I asked her if she thinks she is qualified to coach other adults about life if she can't get her own life together. I told her she probably shouldn't being advising people how to live if she can't get her own life together and now she's upset with me.

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