My gf and I have been together for about 2 years. Sex has been good, but one issue I've always had is making my gf have an orgasm. I can do it, but it does take me a while, and I want her to enjoy herself too. My gf is always insistent that she doesn't need one to enjoy sex, and it's always a balance act to make sure she doesn't feel pressured to cum. She has told me that i just gotta deal with it if I can't make her cum sometimes.

Anyways, recently, I've been having problems Cumming. I still get hard just fine, and my performance is still the same, but I just don't cum as often. Idk what it could be, I did check with a doctor to make sure it isn't something grave, and thankfully the doctor didn't find anything. My doctor says it could be simply age. I'm no spring chicken, but I wouldn't say I'm that old.

Anyway, as far as I can tell, my health is just fine. The doctor has suggested some pills to see if this issue can be fixed, but I rejected them.

This has caused problems with my gf, as she told me she feels self conscious, and I have tried to tell her it's not her at all. She actually asked me if I would reconsider the pills my doctor suggested, and I told her I don't want to. I told her I'm fine with not cumming.

It's been getting more tense between us and I basically told her what she told me, that she is just gonna have to deal with not making me cum.