So boom. I’m 30F, no kids, no husband, livin my best soft life. I got a decent job, my apartment stays clean, and I sleep like a baby every night. My sister (33F) has 3 little gremlins under the age of 7 and swears she’s the only person on Earth who’s ever been tired.

Last week she hits me up on some “Hey, can you watch the kids this weekend? Me and my husband need a break before we lose our minds.”

Cool. I was about to say yes, until she hits me with:

“I mean, it’s not like you got anything going on. You don’t have kids. You’re probably just chillin anyway.”

Like girl… did you really just call me a free trial version of a human being?

So I told her flat out “Nah. You can find someone else since my ‘chill’ life apparently ain’t stressful enough to be respected.”

Now she’s mad mad, tellin the whole family I “abandoned her” when she’s “clearly drowning,” and that I’m selfish ‘cause I wouldn’t step up “just this once.” Like girl… you disrespected me mid request. You fumbled your favor bag.

Now our mom’s on the phone like, “I get you’re upset, but it’s for the kids…” And I’m like, that’s cute, but I’m not your emergency childcare plan just ‘cause I’m not sleep deprived and covered in Goldfish crumbs.

So… AITAH for refusing to babysit after she shaded my whole lifestyle like I’m not out here thriving?