okay, so I have been struggling a lot with poverty, now it has gotten a bit better now, but before it was really bad. It was too the point where I would be left without food for days (my entire family). This instilled in me a behavior that we have to keep rationing every bit of food we had left for survival and I would have a panic attack over eating what I think is too much that I don't have resources the next day. Although my situation has gotten a bit better, I still am weary of eating too much and not having enough for my family later on. I was telling this experience to my support group, and this girl named Stella from this upper class nice suburban area (I've seen her house, its one of those fancy colional models) come and say how she struggled with eating because she though she was too fat and would not eat all of the food she had so she could lose weight. I told her that her situation wasn't the same or relatable to mine because she has all the food made for her her life to eat comfortably and she wouldn't take all of it just for some petty model figure, while I was starving and living in poverty. I proceed to tell her later on that I had trouble with eating so I could ration out food for my family later FOR SURVIVAL while her petty goal was to be a model instead of a doctor or a lawyer, WHAT she could be preparing for in her free time with all the resources she has. She proceeded to insult me caling me not a girls girl and everybody proceeded to support her and not me and I was judged for being the bad one. Her situation is not like mine and she has options and privileges in her life that I did not have so I was forced to live like this. She became obsessed wit beauty because of how much internet access she gets on her iphone 15 pro max or some shit which her care-free parents given to her when she was in 9th grade. She had an XS max when she was ike 10 or something. The internet corrupted her or something like that, seriously though, why do parents spoil their kids like this. So is her situation like mine, and I being a narcissist, and I the asshole here?