I’m going to be very detailed so Im sorry if it’s too long.

First 2 months of marriage were really nice, he was taking me on dates, I was cooking for him, we were happy. After that, he slowly started treating me as a child. First, he was mentally abusing me by avoiding my hugs, kisses, calling me annoying or dumb, yelling at me… I tried making him understand me more, since I live outside of America and I’m away from my family and friends, and I have no one else to talk to except him.

I really thought he will be understanding but no, he started physically pushing me away from him anytime I initiated anything.

With not knowing anyone here and with no drivers license I can’t really go anywhere by myself. At first, we would go on dates at least few times a week, going on walks or to the store almost every day, but now I feel like I’m begging him anytime I just want to go outside of the house.

I spend 3 days asking him to take me to the lake, I made some sandwiches and I thought we would enjoy some nature time. He was complaining the whole time and we were there for like half an hour. He was complaining about how I don’t know how to cook which hurt me deeply because I basically cook all day every day.

I’m from Europe so I prepare food that I know and that I like. I asked him multiple times what food he likes so I can make it for him but he never had an answer.

Today, just before we were about to go to bed he looked at me and told me that he has no idea why I am even here. He said he has no fun time with me and that I’m a horrible person.

from your perspective, AITAH?