šŸ“ AITH except i think i’m the AH this time

By catnip_4ddict • Score: 0 • April 16, 2025 5:51 AM


[16F] I used to work in a non profit a friend started up and the was the president and i was the event planner. However, at the time there weren't really any events that needed planning so it kinda looked like i wasn't contributing enough to the organization, and during meetings i didn't look settled. My friend, the president (let's call her B) got mad that i was deadweight, so i decided to quit to not cause any problems, little did i know she was infuriated when i left, she said quite hurtful things to me which i didn't appreciate.

Another event was when B's best friend stopped being friends with me because she hated the fact that i was still friends with her ex despite breaking up with him because she fell out of love. And i heard from some people that she was saying that i'm a bad person and stuff, which I didn't like at all.

The third incident was when B cut off one of her close friends for becoming friends with her ex who SHE cheated on. Like the friend asked her if she could befriend him because he seemed like a nice guy (he's very kind) and B agreed but she switched up when they actually became friends.

Now it comes to this, i was talking with another close friend who goes to another school, let's call her R. She asked me how life was at the school i was at so i basically mentioned everything i said above because i really trusted her and honestly i felt lonely at the time and just needed someone to talk to. Unfortunately, R's deskmate heard the whole voice note and decided to tell B because she was friends with her. B lashed out at me saying that i shouldn't tell people about my interactions with her because it "affects her brand image" and that i shouldn't have told R about her cutting off that friend because it was none of my business , and she also added that i should keep her best friend's name out of my mouth and that she doesnt talk about me because "no one give a flying fuck about me" and also threatened me if i ever talked about her again. All in all, she cut me off even though i sincerely apologized to her.

I really didn't mean to start anything with her but she insisted that i was, i only told R and it was in a private chat that no one else was supposed to see. But i understand B's anger, i just didn't expect her to completely cut me off...

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