I 23 female, have these new neighbors or sorta new neighbors they have 3 big dogs that bark until 3am 7 days a week. I have tried to be nice to them one Christmas last year took them over some cookies that my mom made because she had asked me to, so there is some back story. I have 2 cats who are well behaved for outdoor cats, they do like to explore expect when it is time for breakfast and lunch and dinner time very spoiled cats mainly because i love my animals. My siamese cat likes to follow me around and so does my black cat. They are the best of friends follow each other every where, a week ago my black just stopped showing up when called for granted he was old i had a nickname for by the time easter sunday rolled around still no sign of him which is unlike him to be gone for a whole week i have been out looking for him even drove around with my dad to try and find him no sign of him still. so AITAH for thinking my neighbors hurt my cat