Quick backstory: We’ve been together for 6 months and everything has gone pretty well. We were both sharing videos back and forth about new ideas to try in the bedroom. We’re both fairly adventurous, and like to try new and exciting things.

I was scrolling some videos, and I came upon one that looked fun, but this video hit a little too home for me. The woman in the video looked extremely similar to my girlfriend. I’m talking like same hairstyle/color, same body type with certain body marks, same way she gets her nails done and color, same way she puts her hair tie on her wrist, same music she likes in the background. Same kink (she’s cuffed).

BUT,

Where normally I wouldn’t bat an eye at this, her voice sounds the same. I’m talking exact. She briefly talks in pleasure and it sounds just like her. I feel after you’ve been with somebody in that way, you become quite familiar with how they sound. However, you can’t see her face. The girl in the video is not facing the camera.

With that being said, it looks like an older video. She also has a certain tattoo that she’s had for years that would give her away, but the girl doesn’t have it in the video.

I brought it up and asked if it was her, and she said no, and got mad. Why would I ask? She’s been recorded before with other men that she’s told me about. She’s also had a healthy sexual history before me. So we fought about it, about how I could even ask her that and that I think of her so lowly. That I don’t trust her.

At the end of the day, I wouldn’t be mad if it was her. But, I felt the need to ask because of all the similarities.

AITAH?