Honestly it was just suppose to be a simple beach day full of good vibes. It started off questionable when they (m30) started drinking at the beach knowing they had to drive back since I (f25) live an hour away from them & work early in the morning. I live with my boyfriend (m26) as well in a studio who works even earlier than me at 5am, so no way could someone spend the night. We were suppose to make Easter baskets when we got to my house after the beach. I figured it’d give them time to sober up while we do a fun activity so they don’t get a third dui & lose their good job. They decided to take a strong edible & was falling asleep when I needed them to leave so I could start dinner. They started telling me “I don’t really give a shit,” “Shut the fuck up.” I feel like an asshole because I called their mom trying to get advice. She just told me to call the cops. I kept trying to get him to sober up with coffee, water & food but he didn’t want anything. When I finally got him outside to sit in his car to wait for an uber from his mom, he like jumped at me, that things men do like they’re about to hit you. I’m 4’9 women so I was just kinda over it since he knows my ex abused me. I feel like an asshole as well because of this text from his mom. His mom is a wonderful woman. “I’m working on it. I’m having a major flareup of my autoimmune disorder and I can barely walk right now. The stress is not good for me. If his car gets towed, he’ll lose his job and I’m crying my eyes out.” My boyfriend wants the car out of here for disrespecting me & doesn’t really care since he knows he drinks on the job anyway. I honestly just feel for her but I don’t wanna be an asshole to her. We’ve been friends for 5 years so it just feels like such a shame for all of this end.