I feel I did not take how my husband rejected me well. For context, during the day I thought we were playfully flirting with each other. There was even a part where he asked if could stop playing on my phone while we were watching a show. I responded with “Are you gonna play with me” in a flirtatious way and he gave me a wink. When night time came, he went to his batcave where he stayed for a couple of hours. After some time I went to him and asked, “I thought we were gonna play together?” Which he didn’t understand, not sure if he really didnt or whatnot. I then said, I am horny. To which he responded “good job” and gave me a thumbs up. Then I left the room. I then went to another room and used my toy. After some time, he came to the same room, and asked what was I doing. I responded with “none of his business”. He continued pressing on and I responded with the same thing. He then explained that he has a mouth sore and was not in the mood for sexy time. Which I understand and told him the same. He left the room and sent me a msg that IF i sleep in that room, he wont come with us on our planned 3 weeks vacation.

We have been having intimacy issues for a while now. We had issues in the bed previously with er3ction and him being unable to cum. Which we discussed. We rarely do it as we also have other issues which to be honest turns me off. But I really thought that around this time we are in a better position hence I made that advance.

We’ve been married for about 6 years now and have one child. Our intimacy went down after I got pregnant. Our daughter is 3 now.