I 18F have a religious family. I’m a lesbian and have a wonderful girlfriend who is my best friend and I have been dating for 3 months. My parents don’t know I’m gay or that I’m dating anyone because I want to live with them until I go to college in a few months. I decided to invite her over because we have only been hanging out at her house and I felt bad that she and her family kept having to host me and I wanted to do a cute promposal. She comes over and my sisters 15F and 20F are acting weird so I’m unable to prompose but she still have a fun time watching movies and baking. After she leaves I call her on the phone and call her babe too loud and my older sister 20F hears. She barges into my room and yells at me to hang up my phone. She says I’m disgusting the way I’m using my parents. That they trust me so much and I’m betraying their trust. That when my parents were asking if my gf was having fun she felt like crying cause I’m using them. She then went into a rant saying I’m a shitty person who should be defending our family. I will admit my friends know that my family is homophobic because I have nobody else to talk to about my life and will vent to them. There’s more there but I wanna keep this kinda short. After she got in my face and was asking who even was that girl who was she. I was scared for my safety because we have gotten into physical fights before and said she’s just a friend. Now I feel physically sick because I don’t want to use my parents. I never wanted this to happen. I wish I was a boy so I could date her in peace. Now I feel I have to choose between my family and my girlfriend. Aitah?