For some background I (32F) and my GF (34F) hang out about three times a week. Whenever we hang out she always stays at my place because she still lives with her parents and I am always cooking for her, washing her clothes, buying her gifts etc and she is great in certain ways. She is extremely helpful around the house and buys things to fix things around the house but when it comes to things such as me eating crunchy food or when she’s sat closets to the table and I ask her to pass me my drink, she gets so irritable and sighs and tuts and generally just makes the entire situation uncomfortable. Anyway today I told her to F off and get therapy when she got especially annoyed at me for asking her to pass my drink over and she told me earlier I was making her angry by eating chocolate