By unikittigril2007 • Score: 23 • April 27, 2025 3:27 PM
Some context first I F(18) am dating M(19) and pregnant. He is a mommas boy but it was never this bad until I found out I was pregnant. I personally do not think he is ready to be a dad. I go to my mom's 3 to 4 times a week to watch my nephew because my mom works. He always comes to "help" most of the time he ends up sleeping and doing the least work he can do. He went 7 months without a job. I had a job but I ended up quitting because I felt like it was just another reason he didn't have to get one. I started paying for a house that was a fixer up but wasn't bad. He still had no job and I was gladly letting him live with me. I was fixing everything in the house by myself he just stood there and watched. Anytime I told him to find something to do he got so mad and made me feel like I was in the wrong. Not the first time he has done that either. In the beginning of our relationship I told him if he broke a pinky promise I would leave him. If you can't like truly control breaking the promise I would understand but he watched p0rn when we got together. He lied straight to my face about it for months until I found it on his phone not only that I found dating sites on his phone. I told him I didn't like it and he even chose to pinky promise he would never watch it again and swore up and down he didn't make those dating sites. I found out I was pregnant and I told him and then I went to my friends house so she could take me to get it confirmed 3 days later I come back. I noticed he watched p0rn when I left. He knew I was pregnant and the moment I leave he is going to choose p0rn and dating sites??? He broke my pinky promise on his own dime and I don't know what I supposed to do about that but anytime I bring it up he just gets so sad and make me feel bad about it like I didn't even do it why would I be guilt trapped into feeling bad for him to watch it? Let me clarify the porn is not the issue i got over it and told him it was okay to watch it but then he started crying and said even if i said that he wasnt going to watch it and i am not made that he did i am mad he lied after promising he wouldn't. If he is going to lie over something i told him was okay, what else would he lie about? Sometimes he tries to wake me up by trying to fck because he said he thought I like it and if I tell him no he keeps trying over and over again to fck me after I fall asleep. He says he just thinks I'm trying to be hard to get. There was serval times where he said weird comments like "I'm not going to stop until you say yes" anyways. I told him we was not telling his mom I was pregnant till he got a job 2 days later he has a job after 7 months. Makes me mad too. He treats me like I'm his mom all the time. I have to wake him up and he just lays there he doesn't even ask me to wake him up he just tell me to set my alarms at night and expects me to do it. I do not want to be his mother too. I know soon I will be moving out to go live with my mom until I find a place to live but what should I do about him?
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