šŸ“ AITAH for getting upset over my friends insta story

By yerimluvv • Score: 1 • April 27, 2025 3:00 PM


My friend posted this story w her and me in it but before her posting it, I told her MULTIPLE times I don’t like the way I look in it, I look bad in it etc but she kept on reassuring me I looked good in it and continued to post it. I even told her that she could just cover my face if she rlly wanted to post it but she didn’t. I then ask her a few hrs later if she can take the story down (also down from her highlights) as I rlly don’t like the way I look in it and even offered a solution telling her she can repost the pic covering my face and archive the story then add to highlights. I told her I appreciate our friendship and appreciate her reassuring me but I felt that she was being insensitive as I told her multiple times I didn’t like the way I looked in it and continued to post it anyways.

She then gaslit me trying to shift the blame onto me saying ā€œu could’ve been straight up w me instead of telling me hrs later but whateverā€ like????? Bro I’m telling u now.. and u could literally just say ā€œok sorry I’ll take the story downā€. Anyways so I thought we sorted it out as I checked her acc and the whole highlight the story was in was taken down so I assumed she took the story down and just took down the whole highlight while at it idek.

Anyways a few days later I check her acc and the whole highlight is back up… w the story I told her to remove…. then I’m like wait she hid me from her story meaning she did not take the story down like I have asked her too and unhid me from her story when she thought I wouldn’t care anymore (as we were back to being besties again)…. and ik this sounds so dumb like it’s just a insta story!!!!!

Ik it’s just a insta story but it’s the fact that I would NEVER do this to her and that she didn’t respect my feelings. We’ve been friends for like 8 years and we barely get into disagreements but recently I feel like she has changed like she’s so boy obsessed and self absorbed now.

Anyways I haven’t rlly said anything to her I kinda just ghosted her cuz I don’t rlly want to talk to her rn. I also feel like if I say smth to her AGAIN, she’ll gaslight me and make it seem like I’m making a big deal out of it (am I making a big deal out of it??? Idk) I could probs forgive her soon and forget abt this but I also just don’t understand WHY CANT U TAKE DOWN THE STORY????😭😭😭 I gave her a solution as well it’s rlly not that hard to respect my wishes and i rlly don’t want to throw this friendship away obviously as we’ve been friends for years but this is rlly pissing me off

Ik this sounds rlly dumb all my other friends have said that I shouldn’t throw away this friendship as she was literally my bff but I’m annoyed cuz like ???? I would never do this to u. If u asked me to take down a story, I would immediately take it down it’s rlly not that hard. It’s also the fact that she kept the story up disregarding everything I said to her. She only cares abt how she looks in the pic and yea she looks good but omg i hate ppl like that

Sorry this is rlly long and dragged out maybe a bit overdramatic whoops

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