my boyfriend of 2 years recently this week moved into a house with 2 male roommates who are his close friends and i came over for the weekend because i have a strict family who are immigrants and its taboo to have him spend the night unless its for christmas, because its a new house and environment and ive never been around these friends alone before i voiced that its a little awkward and uncomfortable and i need some time to get used to things and i feel left out because they all know english but choose to speak russian when im there and even my bf will start convos in russian. but i suggested we all watch a movie together and we had a great time but it was around 12 am and i hadnt ate since 3 pm and i voiced i was hungry to my bf and want to eat after the movie. after the movie he said hes tired n went upstairs n got ready for bed and forgot but when i reminded him he asked me to go down alone and his roommates were down there and i said could u please come with me and he acted like i was incompetent and lazy, while i heated up my food he made snarky remarks while i was visibly very sad, then when i teared up he said “your so fucking fragile” after all this upstairs he told me “could u save ur crying for tmr” because he was tired i guess?? he seems to always treat me like a burden or annoying when im crying and then proceeds to apologize in a weird way by saying “sorry i cant do anything right and made u cry yet again” i need to know aitah??? im seriously thinking of breaking up with him because its just a terrible feeling to feel so unloved and uncared for especially by ur partner while upset