Hi guys, I've got a wedding coming up in may. It's my(m18) boyfriend (m19)'s cousins wedding. I have been invited to the hen (whole other story), and the wedding is stressing me out. Not only is everyone disorganised, nobody is keeping me up to date with anything at all.

The problem is with the hotel situation. The wedding venue has a hotel on site and it's £120 per night, I'm being asked to pay half with my boyfriend and then his sister(15) is sleeping in the room with us for free. This makes me very uncomfortable as we are both adults. I have looked at booking a different hotel with him for £70 per night so we are going to book the other hotel as it's cheaper and in my opinion much prettier. I spoke to his parents about it and they were NOT happy. I don't even know why to be honest but I get the impression that it's my fault somehow???

I need advice guys, Am I the asshole?