I think me and my boyfriend aren’t going to last much longer. Hi I’m 21 (F) and pregnant and he’s 22 (M). We’ve known each other for 5 years. I’m pregnant. I moved out with him after him and his parents asked me to move in with him. I agreed but I think I might’ve made a mistake.

I’m sure he doesn’t love me anymore. He doesn’t treat me the same way. He’s been going through a lot of stress lately. His truck has been breaking down and owes about 2 to 3 thousand dollars as we’re barely making it. I’m not sure if he’s taking his stress out on me. But every time we’re together it doesn’t feel the same as before. I felt like I used to provide some type of comfort for him before but now, it hurts me deeply how he doesn’t mind looking at other girls knowing I’m carrying his baby. I’m not selfish and I cook I plan dates and I bought him a lot of gifts recently but every time I ask for some flowers he says “i don’t deserve them” whatever that means. If I a guy could by any chance explain what the hell a girl is supposed to do to deserve flowers?

Sometimes he’ll get annoyed and respond to me in a disrespectful way. He doesn’t cuss me out but it hurts me that I have never raised my voice and if I do it’s mostly when I’m tired after work. Another triggering factor is how uncomfortable it is to live with his family. My boundaries are constantly being overlooked and his family is constantly criticizing us when we need the slightest help. (ex: a family member had to borrow my bf their car so he could get to work and was complaining about it non stop.) My bf pays the rent and utilities and his siblings help. That’s it no one else helps. His other siblings leave free of charge despite one of them being over 18.

We also buy our own groceries and never ever purposely grab his family’s food or belongings. Yet they have grabbed mine. My bf is currently trying to get his CDL license but he can’t stop working to go to school. We’re currently saving up to get the hell out of there.

Another issue I have is one of his family members can’t stand me, she’s always trying to put my bf down and constantly criticizing everything he does. She’s tried to made me feel shame for being pregnant (she’s infertile) and I honestly have no issues with my bfs family aside from the fact that this same family member tried to disrespect me and was constantly making remarks about how I wasn’t part of the family yet and insulted my looks. And I defended myself and I asked her what truly was her problem because I was tired of her shady shit. His family hates me now. I could care less. If they want to enable a 25 year old to act like a 5 year old toddler who gets mad because their brother made a new friend so be my guest. To this day I cannot stand her and I refuse to engage with her. She also threatened to hurt my cat who isn’t very friendly with dogs.

At this rate I don’t want him to have to choose his family over me. I think my boyfriend never truly liked me and it’s best if I just move out. I’m miserable and I don’t know what to do. I feel humiliated.