So here’s the context:

My dad cheated on my mom 7 years ago. They never divorced, but they still live together and honestly—hate each other’s guts. My mom especially has every right to be angry. She’s been deeply hurt and she’s been holding on to that pain for years. I totally understand that.

But for the past one year, all she does is complain about him—constantly. Every single conversation turns into a rant about how horrible he is. Initially, I could empathize. I even tried being her support system. But now, my own mental health is hanging by a thread.

I recently went through a brutal breakup—completely blindsided. The guy emotionally checked out months before leaving, and it shattered me. On top of that, I’m working a tough teaching job at a school and trying to prepare for competitive exams to build a better future. But between work, stress, and heartbreak, I barely get time or energy to study.

My mother, however, doesn't seem to acknowledge any of that. There’s no space for my pain. It’s just her venting—nonstop. And honestly, I feel like I’m drowning. Every time she complains, it’s like another weight on my shoulders. I’m starting to resent her, and I hate that feeling.

So yeah, AITAH for thinking about myself now? For wanting to distance myself a bit emotionally so I can heal too?