He has 4+ ex's I quite like but none of them know me or like me. To say my brother is not a player is a lie. (Fyi he and I are not related, we met online he basically adopted me as little sister. We never met up it's only been a year and few months sense we met online)

He always gives a chance to any girls who's interested in him, he lovebombs hard and few months later he ends things for minor issues then the cycle basically repeats. Lately he's been really busy and yet chatting 1-3 separate girls leading them on. Ik he's not looking for anything serious for now (I asked cuz our topic changed to relationships some random night)

I assume he's not bad bf on purpose since he does love or loved his gfs.

(Idk if these I listed are just smth guys do. Idk cuz I'm a bi girl who only had girlfriends. Am I the overthinker asshole here?)