I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 26 and we been together for 11 months. He's also the one who took my virginity and has a lot of sexual experience and I still have very little comparatively. He's also very mature for the most part,loving and caring. A few months into our relationship after we had sex for the first time he started bringing his friends around when we hung out or he was over at my/my parents house. Everything was great and we all got along well and I love/loved them to death. But one day we were hanging out on the couches watching a movie and it was 5 of us. One of his friends were sitting right beside me and during a movie his friend put his hand on my leg which was weird but whatever, not a lot of space so I wasn't worried. And then he reached over and started touching my boobs. I asked him to stop and he did for a while. Towards the end of the movie he touched my boobs again and I snapped a bit and told him to knock it off and I told my boyfriend and asked him to handle it since he'll be able to deal with it better. All my boyfriend said was "oh..yeah sure, (friends name) can you stop touching her that's rude" in a pretty calm voice, which fine I guess..he doesn't want to yell at his friends or have conflict, I get it. So after they all left I asked him to talk to our friend and ask him to stop. Which he never did. Anyways next time we all hangout and the same thing happens almost completely identical. So the third time it happens is with a different friend and we were in my bfs car and he asked me to sit in the back with his other friend who ended up getting touchy. Next time my bf and I hangout alone I asked him if he secretly liked them touching me because he never really has a conversation with them asking them to stop or anything and he was always so calm like he didn't care, no matter how much I made it clear I didn't want it. He said he didn't ever physically see it (which is a lie because they've touched me in front of him and I seen his eyes quickly look at me then look away while it was happening a few times). I even told him if he enjoyed it I would let it continue to make him happy. He'd never say yes or no. I tried to be understanding because most people have things they desire but are embarrassed by and that could be his embarrassing desire. But eventually the touching got to the point I'd ask him to not let them hangout with us but somehow they'd always find a way to hangout with us and the two of them would touch me in front of him and I would end up calling an Uber or my parents to get me because I'd be at my bfs house when the friends show up and i wouldn't have my car. Eventually like a month ago we were looking through his phone pictures since he said he found really cool horizons and things at work he wanted to show me that he forgot to and so we were looking through on his pc since it's connected to his phone somehow and I saw screenshots that I'm 99 percent certain were titled stuff with G bangs, cucking and other things I think but I didn't say anything but I asked him again before we went to bed if he wanted that and he'd give a weird answer that wasn't a yes or no. Now last week his first friend that touched me was hanging out with us watching a movie and he touched my vagina over my shorts and my boobs and I snapped on them both. I yelled at the friend for harassing me and I yelled at my boyfriend for not giving me a clear answer of what he wanted and told him that I'm tired of the games because I know he's lying to some degree and a lot of other things too and then I stormed out and walked an hour home. We haven't talked since as I been ignoring his calls and texts. I know I should probably leave him and I should have been more aggressive or defensive earlier but I was hoping the guy I thought I loved and cared about, felt the same way enough that he'd deal with his friends when they made me uncomfortable. And I know I could have talked to him in private again but I didn't think that would help. AITAH for telling at my boyfriend and being hurtful since he wasn't necessarily condoning his friends actions and he was just being neutral? I'm asking this now a week after because I'm starting to feel guilty. I just want an answer that's all...if he doesn't want them touching me then we both need to make it clear since it's my boundaries but his friends first and foremost. If he does want them touching me then that could be fun and something exciting but I need to know so we can both be happy and comfortable...