📝 AITAH for yelling at my dad

By lilaryan88 • Score: 2 • April 18, 2025 3:22 PM


He hit me and left red marks on my face when I was a little kid, they’re gone now but he’s spending time with my half brother at 1 almost 2, when I was that age he was already off with his hooker (his new wife). I’m stuck living with my grandparents because he didn’t want to pay the 1k a month for my apt while he has a 781k dollar house. I’m only 18, when I was underage he barely paid anything and now he doesn’t even pay for my uni when he easily can, he’s a dentist.

In high school, I went to a private school and I didn’t fit in with anyone so I had to hide in the bathroom stall. He even tried taking my mom to court she spent all her money and nothing happened, he just didn’t want to pay child support when I was 16. What really is the breaking point is yesterday, I was talking to my only friend irl, he said he has to work to be able to afford the tuition. I saved my father at least 80k/100k in tuition, and he never said anything.

All he does is give me hundreds here and there and complains when I use the money. A few weeks ago I visited him and I don’t have any clothes at his house since I rarely go there, I brought only clothes for inside since we never do anything when I do go. Well he yelled and said I’m not dressed like the daughter of a dentist when he said we could go to his cousins last minute, and I called him sick and evil. I fake apologized after that but I still don’t think I’m in the wrong, I kind of regret it though. Was I?

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