📝 AITAH for telling this girl(20F) that I(26M) like that I dont want to call almost every night because I want to have some time for myself every now and then.

By No-Initiative-5711 • Score: 5 • April 18, 2025 3:21 PM


So we have been talking for 2months now and everything is great, we have a lot of similarities, we share the same humor and generally like each other a lot. However, something has been bothering me.

We see each other almost every day and yet she still wants to call me almost every night. Im not saying i dont like talking to her on the phone, its just that I feel very overwhelmed especially that we have already seen each other earlier that day and yet she still wants to have another time with me on the phone before I go to bed.

So ive had enough and told her that I don't like calling each other every night. Her reply seemed angry stating ''you're right, ill give u all the time urself''.

AITAH for telling her that in the first place? Is her reply justifiable to my explanation? How do I go about with this? I don't want to lose her over this minor incident, I just want a little time by myself after all.

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