Someone and I started out as friends, turned into friends with benefits? They ended up moving in with me. After a small disagreement they moved out. I have the explanation further down on my profile that I posted in this group. After a few weeks, they started saying they missed living there, I told them to come back, they were hesitant and I could tell by the way they were texting back that they didn’t really want to talk to me anymore. I backed off after they ignored me a couple times. They texted me and I thought they were getting back to me about what I needed. Instead, they were asking if they could move back in but the reason was so that their new partner could come over and spend time with them and other things. I wasn’t okay with this…I said no. They said it was fine, but now said don’t text them and that after getting their belongings, they are blocking me.

We’ve known each other for almost three years now. I guess this is it but I don’t know what I did wrong. I asked and they ignored. Am I the asshole? I want peace and a good environment at home. The situation they wanted to bring would not be good to me. What’s wrong with that? I’m just left confused once again. I feel like maybe I just don’t know how to deal with people. Every time I stand up for myself, there are always consequences like this. I don’t know what to do anymore. 😞 This makes me have no appetite, just sick to my stomach.